
I took a few days off this week and headed north for a little adventure in Cleveland. We chose this destination because a favorite author was speaking and I was dying to go hear her.
We had a nice time but I am a self proclaimed country mouse and the concrete, noise and pollution of that city are hard to tolerate. There are benefits like bookstores, restaurants, museums and other cultural features that are hard to come by where I live. I love parking the car and wandering around a city’s downtown even though I didn’t get to do that this time.
But the sirens, construction sounds, and challenging traffic situations make it hard for me to relax. Plus, it feels like there is no good way to get anywhere and it’s all incredibly spread out so that’s an annoyance.
Once we left Cleveland and were headed south on less populated interstate followed by state routes through the countryside, and then backroads home, I noticed I was breathing better with each passing mile.
As dusk turned to dark, the thick forests which line our rural roads began to crowd in, as though reaching toward the car in a warm embrace.
We rolled down the windows and breathed in the cool air. It was about 74 degrees and the humidity had broken while we were away.
Not only did it feel soft and pleasant, it smelled clean. We realized we hadn’t breathed clean air in days.
And our country air didn’t disappoint.
It smelled of pine, of earth, and sometimes of campfire smoke.
It was eerie in places where rain had preceded us and left behind a light misty fog that clung to the pine trees..
Two small deer grazed by the road as fireflies danced around them. We didn’t see fireflies in the city. We also didn’t hear locusts, tree frogs or bull frogs where we were.
We did spend some time at Lakeview Cemetery and were delighted at all the life that is found among the deceased including swans, ducks, fish, turtles and all manner of birds.
As country people we are told that our life is backward. People might call it quaint or old fashioned. They make fun of us for being so far from civilization and call us hillbillies. They think we aren’t smart enough to know better and to want more for our lives like they have.
But you know something? A ten minute drive into my county seat gets me to work and to a grocery store, pharmacy and hardware with most of what I need. A thirty minute country drive gets me to a larger town on a road where I’m not in a wall of traffic that’s either sitting still or driving 80 mph.
Plus, I have nature and clean air.
I’ll take my country home, far from the noise of traffic, where I’m immersed in the goodness of what the Earth offers over the steel and concrete misery that our nation’s cities have to offer.
It’s nice to visit. The bookstores, shopping options and museums feel like a destination and a treat that way. Meanwhile, you’ll find me tooling around in my “backward” country life.
If only those who criticize knew they are actually the ones who have it backward!
Go breathe some fresh air, friends. If you’re lucky enough to live with it, don’t take it for granted. If you’re not lucky like me, your lungs, mind and spirit need a break.
We visited Cleveland two years ago and had similar issues with traffic and construction. And we didn’t love that we had to drive everywhere. But hey, sometimes leaving your town for a few days makes you appreciate where you live so much more when you return.
I never enjoy coming home but it does hurt less when you leave a place you don’t love.
Wonderfully written!
Thanks, friend!
This is so good – “I’ll take my country home, far from the noise of traffic, where I’m immersed in the goodness of what the Earth offers over the steel and concrete misery that our nation’s cities have to offer.” ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you!!!
If I didn’t have family there you’d never find me in Cleveland either! Or most any other U.S. city, for that matter. I spent Saturday in the alpine reaches of the San Juan Mountains enjoying wildflowers. The crush of tourists was a bit much, mostly in ATVs. But it was still an amazing place to be. I can’t really imagine people saying you and your community are backwards and hillbillies, though.
Oh gosh! That sounds amazing! Good for you! Did you see anything unusual while you were there?
All my life, I have heard people from other places talk down to my community. They say all kinds of terrible things. When I ran the visitors center, I had a man come in looking for a map who asked where I was from. When I told him I was local he said to my face “nah, you’re not local. You’ll look like you’ve got all your teeth and you’re not dumb enough to be local.”
Most visitors were super nice but I had more than a few who had that exact attitude.
😲 Appalling that people say stuff like that. I’d be tempted to reply that at least where you come from people have manners and don’t go around slandering those they don’t even know.
I don’t even remember what I said. We are sparsely populated and our poverty rate is high. People here tend to live in modest homes, even when they can afford better because we don’t like to make our neighbors feel bad. We have one traffic light and no Walmart or big chain restaurants other than the gas station McDonald’s and a small Subway. People from “outside” love to look down on us for these and many other reasons.
Appalling, indeed.