Early Christmas Decorating

Introduce the topic of Christmas decorating to any conversation and you will quickly find that people are unexpectedly passionate. Early decorators typically are just happy doing their thing and others can like it nor not. They’re doing it for themselves and are satisfied with their life choices. The Not-Before-Thanksgiving folks can be pretty passionate about their belief that we should give that holiday its own space and wait till December.

When I was a kid, we always decorated the Saturday after Thanksgiving. It was tradition. First, we would give thanks on Thursday for all we had before heading out to forget gratitude and bargain hunt on Friday. Then on Saturday we would embrace Christmas as we had finally crossed some imaginary line on the calendar.

When I was the marketing director for my county, I was responsible for the Christmas event in our county seat. That meant organizing businesses, nonprofits and crafters for an afternoon of fun on the first Saturday in December.

It was a lot of work in addition to my regular job and I typically started planning in July or August. Friends, it is hard to think about Christmas trees and hot chocolate on a sweltering summer day so I would often begin listening to Christmas music just to make those planning days more enjoyable, By fall I was watching Christmas movies and by Veterans Day I was decorating at home.

This year, I started decorating last week and put up one of my trees yesterday.

I typically don’t host for Thanksgiving so I’m not ruining anyone’s holiday with the greenery and lights on my mantle. The tree I put up yesterday celebrates winter more than Christmas as it’s loaded with berries, pine cones, wooden mushrooms, little primitive churches and birds.

Before that I spent some time adding small festive touches to bookshelves and corners of the house that could use some brightening up.

Personally, I don’t mean to rush Christmas so much as I want to have more time with the beautiful decorations and white lights that I enjoy so much. Christmas can wait while you all eat your turkeys. Personally I’m thankful to be vegetarian so I don’t have a bird’s demise on my conscience. That’s one of many things I’m thankful for as I enjoy the warmth and light of my fortunate life.

Besides, it is a lot of work so it’s nice to stretch out the enjoyment as much as possible.

Friends, I hope you will do what works best for you. Cover everything in tinsel and baubles as early as you like or….wait till the week of Christmas. Whatever makes you happy works for me.

Life has felt dark and uncertain lately. Personally, I’m happy for the comfort and joy I feel in the presence of the warm glow of Christmas lights

Silent Sunday: Work Truck

Gratitude To The Folks At Pawhaska Tepee

If I ever find myself back in the Cody/ Yellowstone area, I hope to stop by Pahaska Tepee. It’s just minutes outside of the East Entrance to Yellowstone.

A private business, they have cabins and activities, a gift shop and tours of Buffalo Bill’s original 1904 lodge. It was closed for the season when we were there but they had left their restrooms open.

This felt like a true gift given that we did not know if national park restrooms would be open or clean.

Someday, I’ll go back and drop some bucks in the gift shop as a way to say thanks. Meanwhile, I’ll tell you all that you should stop by if you’re ever in the area.

Sometimes it feels like everyone is looking for ways to monetize even the simplest things. We were not paying guests and they weren’t open to even buy a sandwich in the restaurant.

They just did all us passersby a solid because it’s the kind thing to do.

Annie Oakley And Dave

Did you know that Annie Oakley had a dog that let her shoot an apple off its head?

Yeah. Me neither.

If you find yourself at the Buffalo Bill Center Of The West, you’ll see an interesting framed photo on the wall. It’s of Annie Oakley as she’s lining up her shot, her dog Dave calmly sitting on a stool with said apple on his head.

By that time, Annie had left Buffalo Bill’s Wild West Show and was performing on her own. Dave was a much loved pet and constant companion for Annie and her husband Frank Butler. In other words, there was a lot riding on that dog’s ability to stay still.

Even if you could find a dog willing to remain so calm and still the first time, I can’t imagine a dog so trusting and stoic that it would do it again.

He must have been a very good boy.

This Is Ohio

I live in southern Ohio. That means it can literally snow on Monday and look like a winter wonderland only for all that pretty white stuff to disappear before lunch on Tuesday.

This literally happened this week.

On Wednesday, I was warm in a jacket as temperatures soared near sixty. By 9 pm I was shivering and reaching for warmth.

Living in Ohio also means that there is road construction everywhere and it seems to have no end. Concrete barriers and rows of orange barrels are lined up like toy soldiers for as far as the eye can see and for moths and years at a time.

I’m convinced there is no warehouse large enough to store all of the state’s orange barrels and cones so we just keep them out on the road.

But we are polite and we’ll wave to the construction workers as they flag us through a single lane. After all, they’ve had to work outside through this week’s moody weather.

This is Ohio. Look out for those orange barrels and enjoy the swing in weather. If you don’t like it today just sit tight. It will be different soon!

An Evening With Sean Of The South

One of my favorite contemporary writers is a southerner named Sean Dietrich. He also uses the moniker Sean of the South for his blog and a one man show he performs all over the United States. He uses music and humor to make folks feel good. 

But he’s more than a southerner and more than a writer or a musician. He’s a storyteller whose message and everyman themes stretch across geography, generations, denominations and all the other imaginary lines we humans like to draw around ourselves. 

My gateway into his work was this video where he talks about a kind librarian and the difference she made in his life. Go watch it and come back. I’ll wait. It is lovely, heartfelt and worth your time.

Because of this video I discovered his daily essays and podcasts before finally reading one of his books and then another and another. I have not read everything he’s written but I’m working on it because his writing inevitably makes me feel better about the world. 

Searn writes about people who are kind or who are doing something good in this world. He writes about his dog Thelma Lou and about how church ladies run the show. He writes about his own origin story which he justifiably still wrestles to understand. 

He writes stories that prove there are still good people in this world. What he doesn’t write about is politics, religion or anything else that might divide us. His writing is a study in seeking out the good, looking out for one another, and in creating the family you need or, maybe, that needs us. 

He’s a modern day Mark Twain and is said to be the south’s answer to Garrison Keillor. He’s a man of profound words and many talents with a sense of humor that ranges from smartly witty to canned corn. And for someone who regularly stands in the circle of a spotlight, he seems a humble man too. 

My fella and I built a long weekend of books and fun around seeing the Sean of the South stage show in Cincinnati earlier this month. I’m a fan of the advice to never meet your heroes because too often we find that talented humans are still just human. They’re never as good as we hope. 

I’m thrilled to say that Sean Dietrich was exactly what I thought he would be and more.

Sean performed in Ohio for the first time as what must have been a sold out audience welcomed him to the 20th Century Theater. His wife Jaime meets and greets folks at the merchandise table where you can buy books, shirts, and music cds. 

His stage show is a fun medley of storytelling and music. He tells jokes and funny stories using music sometimes as vehicles for the stories and sometimes like props. It’s a high energy show with few lulls and no time to get bored. Sure, there were some men in the audience who clearly were there because their wives demanded it but the rest of us were thrilled to spend a couple of hours with his wit and melodies. 

When it was over, Sean Dietrich stood by the front door and greeted every person in line. He signed books, hugged people, posed for pictures and talked with folks. We had second row seats so we were near the end of the line and waited about an hour to have our turn. Friends, there are few people on this planet I would stand in that kind of line to meet but I was so grateful for the opportunity. We accepted hugs even though I’m not a hugger but it’s sort of a when in Rome moment. He signed my books. Best of all, he answered my question about writing in a way that was so gracious and kind I was actually surprised at how much thought he put into it. 

I thanked him for his daily essays, a bright spot on social media which feels more like a cesspool sometimes than a place to find inspiration and light. I told him to be careful going home and he told us to watch out for deer. We rural folks like to remind everyone of the ever lurking dangers of deer in the road. 

It was like chatting with an old friend. 

In fact, everything he puts out in the world feels like a chat with an old friend and that’s something we badly need these days. We need someone in our life who will remind us there’s still good in this world despite what the algorithm shows us. We need talent and creativity and someone to inspire us to be kind to a stranger, to share a funny story or to flex our creative muscle even if it’s just for ourselves. 

By the way, his father committed suicide when he was only eleven years old. While this horrific event helped to shape him into the person he is today, it didn’t break him and I don’t believe it defines him either. If a child can survive something so terrible, it seems like the rest of us will be ok too. 

Read his books. Follow him on Facebook for daily essays. Listen to the podcast. Go see the show. You won’t be disappointed. Get started at his website.