A Birthday Adventure

My parents were excited to plan a birthday adventure for us on Friday. We didn’t wander very far because of Covid worries but they successfully found a place that I had never been and that I thoroughly enjoyed.

They wouldn’t tell me where we were going as they thought the surprise would be more fun.

Turns out we went to Cross Mound Park near Tarlton. This park exists to preserve an Indian mound that is in the shape of a cross. It sits atop a hill with some walking trails through the woods around the mound.

I didn’t get a decent picture of the mound. Honestly, it’s low to the ground and would be hard to make out if you didn’t know what you were looking at – one reason I’m really glad it has been preserved in this park.

The crown jewel of the park is a beautiful pedestrian bridge that was built by the WPA in 1936. The Works Progress Administration (WPA) employed millions of Americans, mostly unskilled men, to construct buildings, roads, bridges and other projects across the country. It was part of President Roosevelt’s 1935 New Deal to help struggling Americans survive the Great Depression.

Today we can thank the WPA for countless things like hospitals, courthouses, parks and fairgrounds. They even employed artists, musicians and writers.

This bridge is the only remaining WPA project in Fairfield County and it was rehabbed a few years ago. It’s a suspension style bridge with steel cables and tall concrete entrances on either end.

The bridge spans Salt Creek which happened to be a bit low during our visit. I scurried right down the bank to skip stones and take in the view of the bridge from below.

While the park is just outside a village, it is peaceful here, serene. It’s one of those places that hides in plain sight, providing easy access to the sounds of nature- the trickle of water, a woodpecker overhead, the call of a frog in the distance.

The walking trail to the mound is a bit steep but the trails at the top of the hill are easy and pretty.

We also drove some roads none of us had been on, did some antiquing, saw a 600 year old white oak tree, and had a picnic lunch.

We are off the beaten path, simple pleasures kind of people so it was a good day, just wandering around and seeing what there was to see.

It’s hard for this control freak to appreciate a surprise but they did good planning this adventure!

43

I’ve completed another trip around the sun and am starting my 43rd year of life today. I contemplated doing some kind of snazzy post about 43 things I want to accomplish this year but that seems like a great way to be disappointed during a pandemic.

Instead, let’s use math to take a shortcut (4+3=7) and discuss seven things I’ve learned these last 365 days.

1. Never pass on an opportunity to look toward the heavens when there is a sunrise, a sunset or a meteor shower to enjoy. On Tuesday night I spread out a blanket on the ground and laid down, contemplating the beauty of the night sky while the Perseid Meteor shower created a mesmerizing distraction. It was worth being tired the next day.

The sunrise pictured here also required lost sleep but was worth the effort given that I got to see the dawning of a new day and the enlightenment of the world in a way that most others miss.

2. A walk though the woods on a rainy day will cleanse your mind and soul. I’ve always been a fair weather hiker but there’s a real argument for going during a gentle rain. There are fewer people out and rain changes the feel of the air but the forest canopy keeps you mostly dry. Try it and you will feel like a kid again.

3. Self control goes out the window where vintage suitcases for cheap prices are concerned. For real, friends. I bought another one (a birthday gift to myself) even though the existing suitcase pile already meets the ceiling. Hi, my name is Brandi and I don’t know when enough is enough.

4. Working from home suits me. I like the quiet and find that I’m typically smarter, faster and better at my home desk than my office desk. The transition back into the office has been a challenge.

5. Rescuing a kitten from the street and offering him a pampered life is the most rewarding thing I have done lately. Scout was such a scrawny little baby but has grown into a sleek, strong, playful and smart young chap. He has brought much joy to my life and provided companionship during these many months of solitude.

6. I was made for quarantine living. You want me to stay home with my cat, live off what I already own, read books, go for walks and not talk to people? I’m in!

7. Life is only as good or as bad as you allow it to be. Sometimes the unplanned problems, the roadblocks and the derailments are there to bring opportunities for something better. So instead of complaining about the rain, get yourself a cute umbrella and some nice galoshes so you can go splash in the mud puddles! Better yet, just run outside and enjoy it. You may even catch a rainbow!

This calendar year hasn’t been what I wanted it to be. I miss travel and freedom and diners and live music and being able to to shop in stores without carrying hand sanitizer in my pocket.

However, 2020 has gifted me with amazing books, birds outside my window, kitty cuddles, hikes in my own community, beautiful backroads, and breathtaking meteors.

And when you add all that up, it hasn’t been so bad.

Life is short, friends. Enjoy what you have. And since it’s my birthday, I encourage you to celebrate with some cake and ice cream!

It’s Always Someone’s Birthday . . .

It’s always someone’s birthday. This means there’s always a reason to celebrate! Today happens to be mine. My suggestion is that you take full advantage of this auspicious day (I hope you can read sarcasm) and do something fun.

I once knew a guy who was a big Bob Dylan fan and we had cake to celebrate Bob’s birthday on more than one occasion.

So, my point is to always look for an excuse to put on your best party dress, have fun with friends or just treat yourself to a big ‘ole slab of cake.

There’s always a reason to celebrate – even if it is just a stranger on the internet turning the page on another year.

Happy Birthday To Me!

il_570xN.570881456_8yemToday is my birthday. If all goes according to plan, I will be off on a grand adventure with a friend today. The last couple of birthdays have been really hard for me but I’m actually ok with this one. 2018 got off to a rocky start but I’m thinking this day will mark the start of something great. These are optimistic words and probably famous last words but I’m sticking to them.

So, here’s my wish for you: while I’m out adventuring I hope you will do something fun as well. Go for a walk, get a milkshake, spend time with a friend – just do something that will make you happy!