The First Daffodils

The daffodils are finally blooming. Spring is near.

I have been stalking them for the last few days, waiting patiently for the first of these frilly little flowers to turn their faces toward the sun. That’s my cue to participate in my annual tradition to pick the first few blooms of the season.

Like my dad and my grandfather before him, I look forward to gathering up a few to bring inside.

Honestly, I’m not a huge fan of bringing flowers in from the yard because it almost seems like torture to rip them from their natural surroundings and force them to live in my stuffy house. While flowers brighten my surroundings I just wonder how they feel about it.

I sometimes wonder if this is how my grandma felt or if she just liked to see her flowers outside. Either way, she was never thrilled when my grandpa picked her flowers. It was a true joy for him though and he looked forward to it.

When I was small, he would enlist my help because he knew she wouldn’t complain if it was me committing the offense. I was a really cute accomplice and it’s hard to be mad at a little girl with her hair in pigtails when she presents you with a fistful of flowers.

My dad loves to pick flowers to bring inside to my mother and she enjoys it too. From the first daffodil blooms of spring until the last roses of summer, he makes sure she always has a vase full of flowers.

Scout also enjoys daffodils in the house. Unfortunately, daffodils are poisonous to cats, dogs and horses and I didn’t realize this until he put his rabid determination to work in trying to get to them last night. There literally is nowhere safe or out of his reach inside this house except behind a closed door. I’m already regretting having them.

While it’s a nuisance, it is kind of sweet the way he enjoys fresh flowers as much as the rest of the family!

It’s true what they say. Happiness is in the small things.

Daffodils

My daffodils began blooming yesterday. Like my father and grandfather before me, I am almost incapable of leaving them in the yard.

My dad watches their progress from the moment they begin to inch through the earth. He runs out to pick them for my mother the moment they bloom.

He learned this from my grandpa who loved to pick flowers to bring inside. On the other hand, my grandma believed that flowers belonged outside – in the yard where she planted them! She would get frustrated with him for bringing all her flowers inside.

His answer?

It involved a certain little girl with blonde hair in pig tails. He would let me help him pick flowers for her. She might be frustrated with him but couldn’t be mad at me!

I’m a blend of them all. I want my flowers mostly outside with just a few indoors to enjoy as well. I’ve been studying my daffodil patch all week and happily ran out to pick a few yesterday as soon as my workday ended. I brought in this small bunch but left most in the yard.

While they’re beautiful, it seems cruel to bring them inside, away from the fresh air and bright light of day where they stretch and grow with their little faces turned toward the sun.

Happiness Is…

Happiness is the first subtle signs of spring. The initial hint that spring is near came last week with a chorus of March Peepers serenading us at night. Yesterday it was the bloom of Crocus and Daffodils. Some trees have buds on them and the air is a bit warmer despite the absence of sun most days.

After months of rain and cold, these harbingers of spring give us hope that better days await.

Fortunately, sometimes hope is all we need to get ourselves through.