I like things that go, things that move people, things that help us travel through our daily lives and can potentially take us to places far away. Planes, trains and automobiles are favorites as well as hot air balloons, ships, bicycles, stagecoaches – you get the picture.
But vehicles that take you distances that cannot be measured are my very favorite. In other words, old planes and cars can double as time machines if you allow your imagination to run wild.
Last month, my imagination got a workout at the Pennsylvania Trolley Museum where I got to see, touch and board a large assortment of trolley cars that very easily could have met a scrapyard doom rather than a museum spotlight.
This museum features a visitors’ center with exhibits, restrooms and classroom space as well as a preserved train depot and a large building packed with trolley cars. Visitors are invited to climb aboard, sit, dream, and to touch. Well, you’re encouraged to touch a lot of things but they prefer you keep your hands to yourself in the operator’s area! Most are restored. There was one in particular that hasn’t been restored that shows just how damaging time and deterioration can be.
They have a small army of volunteers who keep the place running as docents, trolley drivers, restorers and more. One such gentleman was Mike, a retired teacher and former trolley operator with a flair for storytelling that made us want to pull up a chair for a long chat.
There are trolley cars with local connections and some from much further away including a streetcar named Desire. Remember the old Marlon Brando flick? Yup. This streetcar operated on New Orleans’ Desire line which was made famous by the Tennessee Williams play turned film “A Streetcar Named Desire.”
If you’re a fan of Mr. Rogers, you can sit on the same steps of a Philadelphia streetcar where he sat when filming an episode of Mr. Rogers’ Neighborhood in the mid eighties.
You’ll notice vintage advertising for things like cigarettes, rodeos, electric mixers and secretarial schools geared toward women. You’ll notice different decor like stained glass in some older cars and less comfortable seats in newer ones.
They tell the story of how the trolley system became obsolete thanks to the city bus, the automobile and other cultural influences. I didn’t realize that when Judy Garland sang “clang, clang, clang went the trolley” in the 1944 film “Meet Me in St. Louis” that the streetcar was already an endangered species.
They tell the story of this mode of transit in its heyday too. Plus, you can ring a real trolley bell using a foot pedal like the trolley operators did back in the day. You’ll learn about the difference between a streetcar and a trolley and there’s great signage that tells stories about each car.
They offer a long trolley ride and a short ride periodically throughout the day and the depot is well worth a visit too. All of this is included in the price of admission.
My friend, whose sons are grown men now, talked about how fun it was bringing her boys when they were small because this was a museum where they could touch and not hurt things. Their curiosity was encouraged and she could breathe easy while they explored. That’s a real gift to parents of curious children.
I’ll share some pictures on the Make the Journey Fun Facebook page and I imagine I’ll revisit some other stories from this museum in the future. Incidentally, this is where we saw the amazing Legotown and a stupendous model train exhibit that were available for viewing through the holidays.
Visit their website to learn more and to plan your trip!
The very best thing about January is that it’s the month of my annual No Spend Challenge. I started this tradition back in 2018 and look forward to it every year. While it started in 2018 as only a way to save money, it has evolved to be something more enriching. It is still about not spending but it’s also about better understanding my values, resetting how I spend my time, and perfecting a form of self care.
What is a No Spend Challenge? Well, that’s up to you. That’s because you make your own rules and set your own priorities. Here are mine:
I pay my bills.
I buy gas for the car.
I buy grocery, personal care and cleaning products that I need.
I stop eating out unless necessary. Sometimes I travel during my workday and lunch with colleagues is an allowed expense. Fast food because I’m too lazy to cook is not allowed.
Every other bit of spending must be assessed. If I break the heel on my favorite work shoes, I’ll shop my closet before going to the store. There will be a decent pair of shoes in there even if they aren’t my favorites. If I blow out a tire on my car, I have it replaced. My car is how I get to work and, in a rural area with no public transit, this is vital to my ability to keep my job.
This isn’t a license to be cheap. If someone is collecting cash for a coworker in need, I still give. If I eat in a restaurant, I still tip my server.
I try to make it fun!
So those are the ground rules but there’s a lot more to a No Spend Challenge than just the rules. You see, when I’m not out adventuring and spending idle time shopping, I suddenly have more free time and I spend most of it hibernating at home.
Here are some things that happen:
Less Online Time – I practice hobbies, read, declutter, clean and rest more. I purposefully walk away from my phone as much as possible given that I manage social media for work. I worry sometimes about what screen time is doing to my brain and attention span and how it will impact our society as more people exhibit signs of addiction. I still spend time on social media, googling random questions and playing in Pinterest but try to do it more mindfully.
Cook More – When I cook more, I tend to eat better. Plus, I’m using up things that might be languishing in the back of the cupboard. I went through my pantry the other day and pulled out a handful of things that are nearing their best buy date. Some canned apples will soon be apple cobbler. That’s hardly health food but I can make it with healthful ingredients and really, what’s better than a fresh baked goodie in winter? A bottle of salad dressing will make a great marinade for some roasted veggies and potatoes.
Waste Less – I am not a wasteful person but I’m more alert to potential waste during these challenges. For example, I will scan the fridge every day for things that need used or frozen. I keep a bag in the freezer for odds and ends of peppers, onions and mushrooms because this combo is my favorite in omelettes, quiche, homemade pizza and pasta dishes. Leftovers often get frozen for future enjoyment and I’m better at using what I have rather than stopping at the store for something better.
Use Up Stray Stuff – This may sound nuts but sometimes my hair gets tired of the shampoo I’m using. It’s like it no longer feels clean or it feels flat. So I switch to something else and put the other bottle away for later. But later never comes because I end up forgetting about it and buying something else. How many half used products do you own like lotions or random hair products? I shop these on-hand products more carefully before buying new.
Declutter– On a related note, I tend to declutter more in January. This year, my January goal is to declutter 100 items that I no longer need. Nothing makes you want to stop shopping quite like dealing with the massive amounts of stuff you have that you don’t need. It’s especially sobering when you realize how much you spent on that item you no longer like.
Practice Gratitude – On a related note, nothing makes you appreciate what you have quite like a No Spend Challenge. If you are satisfied and at peace with all that you have, you are less likely to want more stuff. I try to set aside time each day to stop and think about the many abundances my life provides.
Do Things You Enjoy – Every December, I begin making a list of things to do during my No Spend Month. My list includes hobbies, hiking, a chat with a friend, decluttering, movie day at home, planning a summer trip, making a new recipe, writing a short story, playing with my cat, exercise, putting together a puzzle, and rearranging things I already own to freshen up my home. My list is extremely home based and solitary because that’s how I roll. Your list might include free events at the library or hosting friends for a potluck and game night. There may be free activities in your community to get you out of the house. My list currently includes 71 activities that I enjoy.
Rest – Cutting out the extras and staying home creates more time for things that matter. For me, rest is extremely important. I don’t always sleep well and my body naturally makes me feel unrested even when it should feel good (thanks to my thyroid for this fun trick). In the winter when I’m stressing over a work project and fearful of all the bugs and germs people are passing around, I like to prioritize sleep. It’s good for you!
Build Better Habits – Ideally you won’t reach the end of your challenge and run wildly back to your pre-challenge lifestyle. I like to build better habits that will at least carry me through the season. For example, free activities, cooking at home, embracing the darkness for an earlier bedtime, creating a more healthful schedule, reading and avoiding things designed to create lifestyle dissatisfaction will make my life better.
Some years, my challenge will bleed into February. One year I made it to March 31! For the last couple of years, I have kept going through February with some modifications to accommodate an exception. This year, I would like to ensure that my better habits carry me through March. Maybe then I’ll reassess how to retool those habits to accommodate the rest of the year when I tend to be outward bound, seeking adventure and fun anytime I can. There has to be some balance!
While it’s important to make your own rules, it’s equally important to remember that there is no room for negativity and deprivation during this challenge. Unless it was in the first year, I don’t think I have ever been upset because I can’t buy something or go do what I want to do. Instead of thinking about what I can’t have or do, I focus on all that I already have and the excess room there is to enjoy it.
My challenge is different than others because I built it to suit my own tastes and boundaries, needs and interests. It’s easier for me because I don’t have a spouse and kids who don’t buy in to the idea. It’s easier for me because I genuinely believe it’s vital for human beings to embrace the winter season and that quiet time at home is as good for me as hibernation is good for the animals. The earth puts herself to bed for a reason and so should we.
So much of what I have touched on here is just a 10,000 foot view of my No Spend Challenge. I hope to take a deep dive into a few of these topics to help you make sense of them and perhaps find inspiration to do your own challenge. And if you’re not digging the concept, you still might find some inspiration for your own daily life!
I know people for whom every day is a No Spend Day because they don’t have money to spare. I know others who should be doing this because their spending habits are out of control. For many of us, the holiday season was expensive and there were demands on our time and money at every turn. This is a terrific way to reset your relationship with money, to reset how you spend your time and to just slow down your life to a more relaxing pace.
Want to know more? Ask your questions and I’ll try to answer them!
Today we turn the calendar to January 2025. For many of us, it’s the end of our holiday vacation and we’re headed back to work tomorrow. I’ve had a nice, long, not at all fun vacation but the pain from my dental surgery is mostly gone and I’m grateful.
Today, I start my January No Spend Challenge and couldn’t be more excited for the personal growth and good things that will come from this. I have referred to this a lot lately and will talk about it in depth tomorrow if you’re interested.
This month I will also begin planning my 2025 adventures. After all, having something to look forward to is a key to happiness and having adventures to anticipate is one of the happiest things in my world. Some of those adventures will be close to home and others a little further flung. I did less than normal in 2024 and I’m sure that’s partly due to a lack of planning. I won’t make that mistake again.
Today I will start working on my January goals. I set new goals every month and they tend to be related to a theme. Mine are mostly connected to my No Spend Month and help to support that endeavor.
But first, I will spend much of today relaxing and reading. I struggled to read last year but seem to have gotten my groove back in the last few days. Here’s hoping that can translate to lots of reading for all of 2025! I have a backlog of good books collected last year so I need to get busy.
Friends, today is the first day of the rest of your life. Whether you spend it reading or adventuring or just muddling through, I hope you make it a good one. You get just one life to live. For some, that’s almost too much to endure while it’s not nearly enough for others. Let’s pack our days with the things that bring us the most joy, peace and fulfillment. Let’s not waste a single moment on things that don’t matter. No one arrives at the Pearly Gates complaining that they should have worked more or spent more time arguing with their family over what they heard on the news that day.
This life, this day, this moment – it’s your adventure. Make it fun. Make it a great year.
