De-influencing Shopping Habits And Patterns

Social media has gifted me with the videos of a woman who reminds followers they don’t need to buy anything today. She has a lovely Puerto Rican accent that makes everything she says sound charming. 

Her videos go something like this:

You don’t need anything from Target today. You do not need anything from TJ Maxx today. You don’t need anything from Amazon today. You don’t need anything from Ulta today. You have plenty of things already. What you need to do is clean.  Don’t shop, go clean your fridge.

Sometimes she instructs viewers to make an extra credit card payment instead of shopping or to declutter instead of buying more. I don’t know who this lady is but I like her!

There are few hills I’m willing to fight for but one is that cleaning and decluttering are the most powerful tools for curbing spending. I have said this repeatedly in my Winter No Spend Challenge stories and agree with her belief that cleaning is a lowkey way to save money. 

When you find yourself decluttering the stuff you once thought you couldn’t live without, you are reminded of the money wasted on small things that don’t matter. There’s something calming about cleaning what you own and appreciating what you already have. 

I don’t need someone to film a video every day telling me not to stop for coffee when there’s free coffee at work or that I don’t need to bargain shop at Marshalls when my kitchen is packed with gadgets. You may not either. 

But after years of watching the rise of the social influencer – you know, the ones who do videos of Walmart hauls and who color coordinate their Stanley cup to their outfit- it’s awfully nice to see people out there reminding us that what these people do isn’t normal. 

I have a good life. I have everything I need and much of what I want. I would travel more if I could but that isn’t in the cards right now.  I have a birthday coming up and the people around me are asking for gift ideas. I’m coming up short unless they want to buy me a kitchen door or maybe another book. Ha! But isn’t that a wonderful problem to have?

If you find yourself in the habit of shopping regularly – for entertainment, for stress relief, for a chance at keeping up with the Jones’ or for whatever reason, today is the day to ask yourself why. Look closely. There are patterns to your behaviors. You just have to pay attention to see them.

Do you need the things? How else can you entertain yourself? What do you already own that you can be using instead? How else might you use that money? 

You don’t need a bunch of random stuff and clearance shelf junk. Go for a walk, clean something, declutter your closet, cook a good meal or call a friend. Focus on building a better life that doesn’t require an avalanche of random things you didn’t know you needed till you saw them at the store.  

Have you considered doing a No Spend Month? Here’s a story about my No Spend Challenge rules! 

I Don’t Think

“Really, now you ask me,” said Alice, very much confused, “I don’t think—”
“Then you shouldn’t talk,” said the Hatter. —

Alice’s Adventures In Wonderland by Lewis Carroll, Chapter 7, A Mad Tea-Party

Haserot Angel

People claim to hear and see unusual things at this grave but I found this spot in Lake View Cemetery to be peaceful and calm.

This is the Haserot Angel, a bronzestatue that dates to 1923. Industrialist Francis Henry Haserot commissioned the statue to honor his wife who died in 1919. It was created by artist Herman Matzen who was from Denmark but was working here in Ohio

Oxidation of the metal over these last 102 years has caused an effect that looks like black tears streaming from her eyes. The effect is creepy especially since she’s so realistic she could seemingly take flight. Many tourists and ghost hunters claim there’s something otherworldly going on on here.

I don’t know about that but she sure does look sad.

Her name?

The Angel of Death Victorious.

Happy Monday, friends!

Feels Like Fall

The weather finally broke, the humidity dissipated and the outdoors no longer hurts my skin or lungs. It has felt a little like fall for the last couple of days and this break has been a tremendous relief.

We hiked yesterday for the first time since June. Plus, we picked up food truck food and had a picnic at the lake. Last night was nice and cool so we went on the porch and enjoyed the sounds of evening in the country.

It was awfully nice and I wish it would last. Unfortunately, the heat will return soon and we’ll be sweating again and I’ll be complaining about it again.

All the same, it’s a lovely reminder of what is to come as summer will eventually shift into fall and I couldn’t be more excited.

I wouldn’t hate summer so much if it always felt like fall!

Tiffany Glass At Wade Chapel

Tucked into Cleveland’s Lake View Cemetery is a 124 year old chapel that is a must-see if you like architecture, chapels, or Tiffany glass. 

Wade Chapel was donated to the cemetery by Jeptha Wade II in memory of his grandfather who was a founder of the cemetery as well as co-founder of Western Union. Ground was broken in 1898 and it was finished in 1901

Marble plays an important role in this chapel but kind of plays second fiddle to the glass. The showstopper here is an enormous stained glass window that was produced by Tiffany. It is stunning and our tour guide lingered on the story of this window for a while. He says that Mr. Wade bought the window, understanding that it would first be exhibited at the Paris Exposition of 1900 before coming to Cleveland. 

But, if you go, don’t miss the 25 foot long wall mosaics on either side of the chapel. They are laid out in intricate designs that tell two different but converging stories using the theme “The Voyage of Life.”

All of the glass is Tiffany’s signature Favrile art glass which is rich and stunning. I could stare at it all day.

The tour guide suggested they still have many questions about this chapel but they believe that Louis Comfort Tiffany designed the interior himself. He noted that many details here are similar to elements used in Tiffany’s Chapel at the World’s Columbian Exposition in Chicago in 1893.

This feels like a research project in the waiting for some art history student. If only these walls could talk! 

It’s open for tours for a few hours a day. You can look around on your own but, like most places, you’ll learn more if you invest a few minutes in one of the free tours.