Resilience

Monsoon season continues here in southern Ohio. To be fair, it doesn’t rain all the time. Sometimes it’s dry and blistering hot. Regardless, you can be sure the humidity will be over 90 percent so there’s absolutely no reason to put a lot of work into your hair.

So far this year, I’m growing a terrific crop of weeds with a few flowers in the middle and I can’t begin to keep up with the work.

Yesterday, I stood at the window watching an absolute deluge run off my already saturated yard as cars puttered by with their windshield wipers on high. The rain was hard enough to practically knock down a small child but it wasn’t enough to break the flowers outside my window.

How is it that a steady drip of water can reshape rock but a storm like that can’t damage the petals of these flowers?

I don’t know the answer to that question but it got me to thinking about resilience.

Humans experience all manner of storms in life. I couldn’t begin to list the ways that illness, money, job loss, death, depression, and the corrupt world around us can bring relentless downpours of problems into our lives.

Some people lose their footing and never find their way back while others get knocked down but manage to pop up again. A few never fall at all.

Those who nurture their minds and spirits to be resilient always find a way to not let the storm ruin them. They don’t let the deluge of troubles damage their petals.

What do these people have that makes them better able to resist the challenges life throws at them? How do they keep standing against life’s storms?

Maybe it’s stubbornness. Perhaps it’s a sheer will to keep going, to never let life steal their joy and calm. Maybe it’s an inner toughness.

Whatever that quality is, I wish for you that you find it in yourself. I suspect it’s there in all of us if we dig deep enough.

There’s no rain in the forecast today but you can be sure I’ll be ready with a cute umbrella if it does come back. You can’t stop the rain but you can be prepared.

Have a good, dry day, friends!

Resilience In Nature

Nature never fails to surprise and fascinate me. Most of the flowers in my yard have died off with just a few late bloomers clinging to life. I went out before sunset last night to enjoy the crunch of leaves beneath my feet and to examine what’s left in the flower beds.

The flower beds have seen better days. It’s a lot of the usual suspects like mums and sedum, some coreopsis, a rose and some beautiful black eyed susans.

And then there was the flower pictured above. While most of the hostas are turning yellow and dying off, this one continues to flower and thrive. It reminds me of a fine lady, dolled up in a pretty dress.

Time in nature never disappoints. The world changes with each season, with each day and even each hour as the moving light alters the appearance of everything around.

Finding this single flower made my day better and made me marvel at its resilience, at how bravely it swayed in the Autumn breeze.

When in doubt, look to nature for all of life’s important lessons and skills. Resilience is keeping that flower going well into fall just as it will keep you going through the hard times.

This conversation reminds me of a quote I will leave you with today. Consider it food for thought and something to aspire to in your daily life.

“Live close to nature and your spirit will not be easily broken, for you learn something of patience and resilience. You will not grow restless, and you will never feel lonely.”

Ruskin Bond, Indian Author

Bloom Where You Are Planted

Yesterday was sunny and beautiful so I spent part of my lunch break walking with a friend. I enjoyed seeing everyone’s porches ready for summer sitting and children playing in their backyards.

We also noticed this flower growing in a crack in the sidewalk.

If given the chance, nature will always reclaim what is hers even when there’s not much to take root in. To see a plant grow in a small bit of earth in a sea of concrete was gratifying and a source of true joy. It was enough to make me stop for a picture and a smile.

Imagine the will to live necessary to thrive and bloom in these circumstances. There’s grit and glory in this plant and I like it.

My friend said “bloom where you are planted”’as we headed down the street and it reminded me that humans can also bloom where we are planted. We are capable of thriving even when circumstances aren’t ideal and that is indeed a happy thought.