Simple Pleasures

Lots of people in this world are incapable of simply being happy. They’re happiest complaining, wallowing in their troubles or seeking out reasons to be unhappy.

Life isn’t always happy or easy but there’s almost always something good, even if it is small. In fact, simple pleasures are usually the best.

I have been thinking about this a lot lately as people in my social media and real life have been focused on division and angst. So I started making this list of simple pleasures that keep me sane and happy.

1. Watering the flowers on my porch.

2. A cat’s purr.

3. Sitting in the driveway waiting for a song to end.

4. New book smell.

5. Watching the sunrise from the road.

6. A walk in the woods.

7. Baked goods fresh from the oven.

8. An old movie you’ve seen a hundred times.

9. Fresh sheets.

10. A hot shower after an evening of yard work.

11. The transition of summer into fall.

12. A rainy day.

13. The smell of honeysuckle.

14. A bouquet of grocery store flowers.

15. An organized sock drawer.

16. A day at the movies.

17. Napping in the hammock.

18. Using up all the leftovers.

19. A good book and nothing else to do.

20. Going to bed with a clean kitchen.

21. Raindrops on a flower petal.

22. Ice cold watermelon.

23. Encountering a butterfly or frog in a flower bed.

24. A clean car.

25. Finding perennial flowers on clearance.

26. A comedian that’s actually funny.

27. Having something to look forward to.

28. Twinkle lights on a summer night.

29. Comfortable walking shoes.

30. An American flag flying in the wind.

31. Driving a new road.

32. The chatter of birds in the trees.

33. Browsing an antique mall.

34. Vanilla yogurt with melted peanut butter and chocolate.

35. Warm socks on a cold winter night.

36. Pumpkins and mums on a sunny October day.

37. Sleeping in.

38. Glimpsing a classic car on the road.

39. A cabinet full of clean towels.

40. Fresh fallen snow.

41. Facial recognition on my phone. Seriously, no more passwords!

42. Waking up to Scout next to me.

43. A cold winter day at home with nowhere to be.

44. Delivering recycling to the drop off in town.

45. Discovering new to me old music.

46. The promise of learning something new.

47. In season produce.

48. An oversized blanket.

49. A really great used bookstore.

50. Swapping travel destination ideas with a stranger.

51. People who text in full sentences and with punctuation.

52. Eavesdropping on a table of regulars in a diner.

53. A picnic.

54. Stopping to look at the stars even just for a moment.

55. Getting cold outside and coming in to get warm.

56. Going out for pancakes.

57. The smell of pipe tobacco.

58. A Chinese buffet.

59. The happy sight of sunflowers along the road.

60. An old barn.

61. Scratching things off a to do list.

62. Saturday morning cartoons (the classic kind like Tom and Jerry!)

63. Browsing new products in the grocery store.

64. Announcing the presence of a cow in a field to everyone in the car.

65. Watching CBS Sunday Morning.

66. A really good ink pen.

67. Planning a trip with a paper map.

68. Warm homemade chocolate pudding.

69. Happy stories in the news.

70. When tomorrow is Friday.

71. An absorbent dish towel.

72. Finding the thing you need for a deal.

73. A stranger who gets you.

74. A really good rock.

75. The call of an owl, crickets and tree frogs.

76. Browsing real estate online.

77. A cute hat that’s also warm.

78. Street art.

79. A colorful umbrella on a gloomy day.

80. Sun reflecting in a lake.

81. Breakfast at the table instead of standing at the kitchen counter.

82. The view from my window.

83. Scout napping in a stream of sunlight.

84. Tunes spinning on a record player.

85. A walk at lunchtime.

86. Browsing the library.

87. A new haircut.

88. Pajamas at the end of the day.

89. Meeting people different than me.

90. Looking for beautiful things to photograph.

91. A cool breeze on a warm evening.

92. Reading names on headstones in an old cemetery.

93. Old buildings with character.

94. A good night’s sleep.

95. Saturday morning adventures.

96. A clean bathroom counter.

97. Yoga pants.

98. Seeing wild rabbits, turkeys and deer in my yard.

99. A cute summer dress.

100. Reading magazine headlines in the grocery store.

101. Fall leaves.

102. The entire month of October.

103. Homemade donuts.

104. Movies that make me laugh.

105. A sharp pair of scissors.

106. Fun mail.

107. A basket full of flowers from the yard.

108. Making lists.

This list could have gone on and on but this is a good start. Look around and you may be surprised at how many wonderful things there are in your life. What are your simple pleasures? What brings you joy in your daily life?

Happiness Is . . .

Happiness is discovering treasures you forgot you own. Before heading to Asheville last month, I downsized to a smaller wallet and only took what I would need for that trip. That meant leaving behind a wallet stuffed with receipts and store loyalty cards.

When I went to locate some work receipts yesterday, I discovered a treasure trove. Mixed in with that wad of receipts was a $1 winning lottery ticket, two tickets to Franklin Park Conservatory, a punchcard for my favorite place to get a cheese and veggie sandwich, and a $20 bill.

Best of all, there was a card for a man I encountered in a very unusual conversation at a tire shop earlier this year. THAT is a story for another time but trust me when I say the memory made my day.

While some of these things have monetary value, that card simply holds a memory of a lesson and a conversation. Yet it was more important to me than the money.

There’s no accounting for happiness!

A Year Ago

A year ago, Ohioans were enjoying their last days of normalcy before the Covid 19 pandemic sunk its claws into life as we knew it.

Our Governor was proactive, declaring a State of Emergency when there were still just a handful of Covid cases here. Businesses struggled. People were laid off and struggling. We began wearing masks, learned about social distancing and realized that many adults don’t know how to wash their hands.

Supply shortages became the norm. But you don’t need me to tell you about 2020 because you lived it too.

I had a ticket to a Lukas Nelson concert and was planning a trip to Cleveland to learn about early women aviators. I had a plane ticket and was studying a road trip route. Surely, it would all be over by summer, right?

Yet, I had an inkling of what was to come. NPR had reported pretty aggressively about the virus and the shutdown in China where people were not allowed to leave their homes.

I kept wondering how that worked. How do you earn a living? How do you get groceries and supplies? How do you not lose your mind being stuck at home and worried about a virus that could either make you not sick at all or kill you in a most vicious way?

I had begun gathering supplies – paper products, groceries, toiletries, household stuff – partly to replenish what I had used from my winter stash and partly because I could see the writing on the wall.

Gratitude has helped me this year.

Yes, I was disappointed that travel was mostly cancelled and adventures have been slim. Yet I am grateful for so many things – my employer sent me home to work, I live in the country where it’s possible to breathe fresh air and move around some, my introverted self is quite happy with the idea of social distancing, Scout keeps me laughing, work keeps me busy, books keep my brain engaged, and I have found ways to adventure around the region and be safe doing it.

Anytime dissatisfaction leeches into my attitude I try to draw on these reminders of how fortunate I am.

I live an exceptionally good life where I stay busy and happy most days. I’m not in any real hurry for things to go back to normal because there are many benefits to how I live today.

The vaccine restrictions in Ohio now include people fifty and over so we are getting close to my decade. New CDC guidelines signal that things are loosening up.

For now though, I continue to be grateful for the life I live and empathetic for those who are struggling. I’m also hopeful that I will hold onto some of the routines and habits that have enriched my life for the last year and that my next new normal brings more satisfaction, adventure and joy than the old.