No Spend Update: January 20

It’s January 20 so I’m about a third of the way through my January No Spend Challenge. After doing this for nine years, I’m surprised to still learn things about myself and still enjoy the creativity that the rules foster.

If you don’t know what my No Spend Challenge is all about, you can get the details here.

In case you’re following along, here are a few notes since my last post.

  • I’m working through some odds and ends from the refrigerator freezer. It’s a mishmash of leftovers, remnants, and good intentions. My goal is to whittle it down to less than half full by month’s end. So far, I’ve used up leftover Beyond meatballs, frozen veggies, pasta and cheese for a creative dish that turned out great. Half a bag of tater tots and some stray steak fries were the base for a delicious breakfast casserole. Several leftovers that were frozen in the last month or two have been used up. Things are going well and I enjoy getting creative.
  • Grocery shopping remains my hardest area. My pantry and freezer are stocked but it’s hard for me to not grab deals when possible. I rotate my stock but tend to keep the shelves overflowing. This is what happens when you grow up in the country, influenced by people who remembered the Great Depression. You never know when a winter storm, illness, or some other life event will prevent you from getting to the store. In my defense, I understand my own habits. A stop at the store to pick up one need typically leads to buying a bunch of extras I don’t need. Ultimately, staying stocked up within my own boundaries will save money, This is still an area I need to focus on. To that end, I hope to make it until the end of the month before my next grocery shop.
  • All of my meals except for four this month have been prepared by my own hands. Two were fast food after work when packing food wasn’t possible and when I couldn’t wait till I got home. The the third was with my folks, and the fourth was in a restaurant with my fella. Once upon a time, I was strict about not letting someone else buy because they thought the challenge was brought on by hardship or because they were trying to give me a way to skirt the rules. It’s not brought on by hardship and I don’t want a break but I do allow my fella to treat me when we are out because it makes him happy.
  • I got an alert from Ebay that something I really wanted was available and on sale. Southern writer Rick Bragg narrated the audiobook for his near masterpiece “The Best Cook In The World.” It was published on CD but is no longer being made and has been nearly impossible to find used. This is something I really want and I can hardly wait to listen to it. The $19.21 spent was a good investment as far as I’m concerned and waiting a few weeks wouldn’t serve me well at all because it may not be available by then.
  • I got a haircut. This was a planned and budgeted expense. Since my beautician is thirty minutes from home, I always batch the haircut trip with other things. This time it was a grocery trip and a stop for gasoline. And yes, I did tip her. Remember, a No Spend Challenge is no excuse to be a cheapskate.
  • I haven’t made any kind of lists for future purchases. This is a good tactic if there’s an itch you want to scratch but don’t want to actually buy. Sometimes shopping for the thing or writing a list is enough but I haven’t needed this coping mechanism. People seem to assume that a challenge like this is followed by binge shopping but that isn’t how I roll. Instead, I like to hold onto my newly improved mindset as long as possible.
  • I’ve been doing some decluttering and am gradually organizing my craft room. Some years I gamify decluttering but don’t feel the need to do that right now. I’m just trying to keep it front of mind. The craft room is on track to be mostly organized by January 31. Nothing makes you want to not shop quite like decluttering all the stuff you once thought you couldn’t live without. On a related note, I found the painting that’s pictured above while doing some organizing. It’s a winter scene on slate that my aunt Florene painted long ago. I have always admired her skill and was excited to find a good place to display this.
  • I’ve been reading a lot more than normal and am several books ahead of pace in my 2026 goal. I’ve been cooking more than normal and focusing my attention inward which is a wonderful side effect of my version of a No Spend Challenge. Another behavioral change is that I make sure my water bottle is always full when I get in the car. There’s no reason to stop for a drink when I can stay hydrated with what I have. This is a small but important thing because this small purchase often leads to more.

It’s hard to believe that we are already in the second half of January. At this time, I plan to keep the challenge rolling into February with a budget modification that includes a Valentine’s Day excursion with my fella and a birthday gift for my mother.

I’ll keep you posted!

Decluttering

Decluttering has been an ongoing project around here for a while. That’s because I’m moving at an absolute glacial pace without any real hope for improvement in this lifetime.

While motivated to not suffocate under the weight of my own stuff, I’m stymied by two things:

  1. The phrase “but it’s really nice” often slows down the process. I have to constantly remind myself that if I don’t need a thing, it doesn’t matter how nice the thing is. Do you know that until about two weeks ago, I owned five colanders? I cannot begin to explain the reasons behind this.
  2. I collect things with potential and I hate to let go of potential. Vintage items that will someday be rotated in to my home decor, random craft projects, and scraps of ribbon and fabric (because you never know when you might need precisely five inches of a beautiful blue ribbon) are particular weaknesses.

I realized this week that I own so many black socks there is no reason to ever again wear an uncomfortable pair of socks. Slidey socks are unwelcome here.

Scout isn’t all that helpful. I emptied this fabric box earlier this week and he has laid claim to it. He seems to believe it’s the nicest box he’s ever set paw in and hasn’t been receptive to my suggestions that we move it. We certainly can’t give it away since he’s discovered the creature comforts of having a fabric box of one’s own!

I did drop off a carload of donations a couple of weeks ago and have another bag started already. Progress is progress, I guess. Even if it is slow!

Three De’s of De-Cember

I have been building my priorities around monthly themes for the last few months. You can read all about it here. Last month’s theme related to saying NO to things that don’t matter for No-vember.

I’m taking a similar nod from De-cember by building my task list around decluttering, destressing and detoxing. I’m off to a late start because of circumstances beyond my control but that’s ok. I’m not reaching for perfection but am simply looking for improvement and some sense of accomplishment.

These tasks will also be carried into January as part of my annual No Spend Challenge. I find it’s easier to not spend money when you see how much extra stuff you own, when you’re not feeling stressed, and when you’re actively detoxing from things like screen time and junk food.

I badly need to work on all of these things. I have been too stressed lately and am aware that my priorities need realigning. I also need to calibrate how I deal with people and situations where others are making demands of my time and energy.

Theme months may sound silly but they are actually quite helpful in accomplishing a few goals every month and staying focused on what actually matters.

Have you ever tried a theme month for your to do list? I would love to hear how it works for you!

The Hundred Item Game

On average, how many items come into your house every week? Think about mail, receipts, food containers, plastic bags, the pen you took from the bank, items you intentionally choose to bring home and things that are given to you. 

I have never tracked it but am certain the number skews higher than I like to think. 

That’s why I occasionally play the 100 item game and why I’ll be doing it again in January. For 31 days I’ll keep a sheet of paper on the kitchen counter and a donation box nearby. When I have a few minutes I’ll just randomly look for things to declutter. The paper is for keeping a running list of items and the goal is to hit 100 in 31 days. 

It can be a movie to pass on to a friend or old receipts bound for the trash (if I find a cache of receipts they count as one unit being tossed). The purged items could be delivery boxes to breakdown and recycle or unloved clothes to donate. 

If I’m waiting for dinner to heat, I might rifle through my own kitchen cupboards in search of things that can go. Sometimes I set an alarm for ten minutes to see if I can shed one item a minute. 

It’s easy to become overwhelmed with stuff. Honestly, I like stuff and border on packrat when it comes to some things. However, I have no qualms about shedding things that just takes up space. It becomes even easier when you gamify it too!