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Asking For Directions

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Doesn’t this guy look like he’s giving directions? “Go through the door and turn right to head up the stairs. There’s a painting you’ll want to see……..”

This guy is a cool statue outside Kingwood Center Home.You can read about that place here. He isn’t likely to be helpful in way finding but I would encourage you to go see him and this beautiful attraction in Mansfield.

You should also consider asking others for recommendations even when you think you don’t need them.

Locals typically know the best place for a great meal. A museum docent can tell you about an obscure piece that they love. Regulars in a diner can tell you the best place to park for the festival in town.

Some of the very best experiences of my travels have happened because of strangers. An old guy at the counter in a Pittsburgh diner recommended blueberry pancakes with chocolate chips. “It ain’t on the menu but they’ll make ‘em for you. Best breakfast around,” he said.

He wasn’t wrong. They were delicious.

A security guard at the National Gallery of Art in DC sent me to the only Da Vinci painting that’s publicly displayed in America. A nice lady somewhere in Indiana sent me to an old movie theater turned Italian restaurant for the best veggie calzone I’ve ever had.

These are things I may or may not may not have found on my own. Regardless, all of these strangers were proud and pleased to help.

As always, safety first. You sometimes don’t want people to know you’re a tourist or think you don’t know what you’re doing. However, it’s a great way to gather intel if you think it’s safe. This works especially well in museums or other places where folks are accustomed to giving directions. It’s also good in small towns where people know everyone and everything that goes on. I’m from a small town and can promise you, we already know you aren’t local. No need to pretend for us. Ask away and we’ll typically try to help.

Have you benefited from advice in your travels? Tell me about it!

Notes From the Field

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Most of my hiking trips are squeezed in between work and chores at home – usually no more than two or three miles in an evening. It’s usually enough to get some exercise and to make me want more time. Saturday morning’s goal was to get out for a longer hike in the Hocking Hills.

Evidently, that was everyone else’s goal too. Fall is a busy time at our local parks. It’s more or less the Smokys of the north so there were a lot of people, even in sections of the trail that normally are sparsely populated.

Here are a few notes from the field.

  • It’s funny how people behave differently in groups than they do alone. There were a number of groups – anywhere from three to fifty people – clumped together, talking and seemingly paying no mind to their surroundings. I was sad for them because there’s so much beauty to be enjoyed and not just visually. If you’re quiet, you can hear an orchestra of birds, the chatter of squirrels and leaves crunching underfoot. If you take a moment to breath deeply, you’ll notice how the turning leaves almost flavor the air and that sharp intake of a cool fall morning will give new life if you let it.
  • On the other hand, I’ve been seeing an uptick in people hiking alone. I’ve always seen men going it alone but there was a huge number of ladies out solo yesterday. A few had dogs but most were just alone and it made my heart happy to think that I’m not alone in my belief that you can’t wait for a partner to go out and live your life!
  • There was an unusual number of dogs off leash yesterday. You may love your pet but it’s alarming to see someone’s Great Dane barreling down the trail when you’re timid or afraid of strange dogs.
  • More people than normal appeared to be lost. I gave directions to several groups that had launched out without maps or any clue where they were going. If you know the area, offer to help. Most people are thrilled to have a little guidance.
  • Along those same lines, if you see someone taking a selfie, you may offer to take their picture. I noticed a woman struggling to get a selfie with her dog and thought she would cry when I offered to take their picture. She said they have few pictures together because they’re always alone. If you’re on vacation, you typically want some pictures of yourself in context or your entire group together. It takes just a minute to give this gift to a stranger.
  • The best thing I saw all day was a man helping a female companion along the trail. I thought that he was just being sweet until I got closer and realized that she was blind. Ironically, it made me think of those groups of people who seemed to be oblivious to their surroundings and I realized that this woman with visual impairment probably would absorb as much or more of her surroundings than those people did. It also made me happy to think that she’s not allowing anything to hold her back.