Life Needs An Undo Function

In the world of computers, there’s a function called “Undo.” It’s literally what it sounds like- you can undo your last change or even the last few changes of a document or file you’re working on.

It’s a fabulous way to fix a mistake or to return to a previous state simply because you changed your mind.

Do you ever wish that life had an undo function? Wouldn’t it be handy to just take back that stupid thing you said or to clean up the egg you dropped on the floor?

I make plenty of mistakes and often say dumb things so it would get a workout in this house.

Yesterday I was staring at my newly-decorated-for-Christmas fireplace mantle and I was sure it could be better. I had combined two simple pine garlands, adding some ornaments, ribbon and pine cones before weaving in some twinkle lights as an afterthought.

Wrong order but it still looked nice enough. Yet I couldn’t leave well enough alone.

That’s mainly because I had hit a great sale at Joann Fabrics the night before and came home with ribbon that would look better than what I had used. Plus, I have this neat garland of pretty silver bells on a rustic jute rope that needed a home and would look great woven into the pine!

Hot diggity! I had a plan!

So I dropped what I was doing, dismantled the perfectly good thing that was done and set about making it “better.”

Hindsight is 20/20 and it is now clear that the road to hell is paved with good intentions, pretty ribbons and bells on jute.

I placed the pine garland, woven with perfectly spaced twinkle lights before setting my sights on those pretty little bells. I figured out how to attach the rope to one end of the pine, immediately sending that half and it’s share of thoughtfully placed lights to the floor.

Huh. This would be harder than I thought.

So I fixed the lights and pine and took another run at it, this time being careful to place the weight of the bells toward the top and back. This sent the entire thing to the floor, leaving the mantle bare.

I will spare you the full story of how many times this didn’t work. Suffice it to say my mind got stuck on an annoying loop of wishing I could just undo the last ten moves. The bells are currently in a pile on the floor as I’m far too disgusted to look at them.

Meanwhile, I put the pine, lights and adornments back to the best of my ability, looping in the new ribbon to add some nice muted color and texture.

And now, as I step back and admire my handiwork, it is clear that I liked it better the other way.

Seriously, friends. Where is that Undo button when you really need it?

Feathering My Nest

Yesterday’s gloom was a good excuse to stay home and feather my nest. Part of that involved simply straightening up the messes made last week when I was under the weather. Part of it was moving some furniture to accommodate a cabinet my parents gave me. I also tried to convince Scout that he wants to use the new larger litter box I bought for him. All of this plus a pot of potato soup for good measure!

It was a nice day.

The problem with a day like this is that it encourages me to notice things I want to change. My carpet is ugly and worn out and I have in mind a bedding look I would like for winter if I can find what I want. Then there’s the craft room/storage room that is a perpetual mess. I have a few fixes in mind but am honestly not sure how to proceed so paralyzed with indecision I will remain for at least a while longer. Then there’s the completely useless dining room I would like to transform into a library. Again, what to do with the furniture and which shelves should I buy?

The indecision regarding these rooms reminds me of the five year long saga that surrounded the need to replace my back door. Don’t ask. Just know it was excruciating.

While I wrestle with these and other issues, I will choose to be happy with this corner of my home.

Doesn’t it look inviting and cozy? It is pretty comfy.

Adventure season is not done but it is winding down. I have one big adventure and a few smaller ones planned throughout the holidays. Soon, though, I’ll be hunkering down at home and enjoying a no spend month or two. It’s good having a welcoming place and a refuge to return to at the end of a long adventure season.

We all deserve to have a place to call our own whether it be a corner, a room or an entire home. I hope you have a place like that for yourself.