Around Here

Around here, mindfulness is the word as I try to slow things down, soften the edges of my own life, and remove myself from places where I do not belong. 

Around here, I’m holding onto my post vacation haze as best as I can and am working to follow through on my promises to eat better and enjoy more quiet time doing what pleases me.  Reading a book in bed has never been a bad idea.

It feels like fall right now and I’m loving every minute of it even though the forecast is for upper eighties next week. I’ll live in this moment and take my meals on the back porch. This weekend I made a hearty soup and began planning for more new-to-me soup recipes. Any dish that starts with onion, celery and carrots in a big pot is fine by me. 

Around here, I am suffering the consequences of reinjuring a knee that had been healing. This time, though, I’m taking it more seriously since the doctor has been more plain and scary with his language. I turned down a hike this weekend because a trip to the grocery store Friday night had left it too inflamed and angry to be out in the woods. 

Although, natural ground is quite pleasing as opposed to the harsh concrete and pavement that covers so much of our “civilized” world. What does that impulse to build and pave over everything that is natural say about our choices as humans? 

Around here, I’m making a conscious effort to leave the tv off and the smartphone out of reach. I watch very little tv but tend to turn it on for noise. I have been listening to more podcasts and music lately and have been reading more books. I have been better able to focus on what’s in front of me which is no small accomplishment in a world of constant distraction.

Around here, I’m enjoying more porch meals which are always accompanied by a show. An orchestra comprised of all the best things found in nature make an amazing sound track for even the simplest meal. I wish more people understood the beauty in being quiet in nature. The buzz of a hummingbird’s wings as it hovers over a flower, the constant thrum of locusts, chirps of crickets, the occasional tree frog, and coo of the Mourning Dove are just a few of my favorite sounds. Even the rustle of breeze through changing leaves sounds remarkable when you allow yourself to enjoy such small pleasures. 

Around here, it’s the start of another week. More busy days, more dr appointments, more meals to cook, and more meetings are the sort of toil sure to keep the week moving forward. I hope to squeeze in plenty of porch meals, reading time and other things that bring joy to my days. 

Around here, I recognize that this won’t just happen. I have to make it all happen so that around here is a place I really want to be. 

Negative

The plan was to write something enriching for you today. It’s time to start getting back to some routine and I wanted to give you something interesting or thought provoking to read.

Turns out everything I tried to write took on a negative tone.

I wanted to tell you about hiking in Ohio’s Hocking Hills but I didn’t actually get to do that this weekend. On Saturday the parks were so overrun by tourists that any self respecting nature lover would find it easier to commune with nature on a city street than in the state park Saturday.

Negative.

So I tried to switch gears into more positive thinking about how scarcity gives us a sense of abundance. Sadly, my brain started down a garden path toward the American obsession with mass consumerism and how wasteful people are with everything from leftovers to water to fast fashion.

Negative.

And then I started thinking about lots of topics that bump up against American politics and I just don’t have it in me to go there.

Clearly, I need to get out on the road immediately, if not sooner, to look at some art, take a hike or just to stop and appreciate some pretty spring flowers.

If I’m no longer seeing the good in the world, it’s time to go looking for something better than what I can see from here!

Meanwhile, here’s some pretty daffodils blooming in the graveyard of a local church we explored when hiking was a bust on Saturday.

Aren’t they pretty?

Happy Monday, my friends. I know the world looks bleak right now but I hope you will take a moment today to look for some beauty or to create your own if you can’t find any out there!

Joy In The Everyday

There is joy to be found in everyday living.

To have a day at home. To spend a morning washing sheets, airing out the house, tidying up the small messes of daily life. To scramble some eggs in your favorite pan. To turn up the tunes and clean a closet. To make a snack and watch a favorite movie. To curl up with a book, to play with your cat, to wear your favorite fuzzy socks. To watch the sun slip behind the trees as night begins to close in on the day.

None of these things cost but all of these things contribute to your betterment. These small comforts and delightful acts bring comfort and joy to the everyday. 

The average day is chock full of these small things if only you allow yourself to notice and appreciate them. There is joy to be found when life is normal, when there’s no excitement or tumult to distract and stress you. 

Isn’t it lovely to think we don’t need much to be happy?

That Moment

You know that moment when you realize you should have just stayed in bed? This was that moment for me yesterday.

At approximately 7:35 a.m., a terracotta flower pot flew off the bookshelf, taking with it the African Violet and crashing onto the window sill where it smashed into several pieces. Soil and plant, no longer contained, ran everywhere.

That plant was a gift from a coworker when she retired last year. It has done ok but hasn’t had a great life with me. Evidently, it believed life wasn’t worth living and decided to jump. Either that or the books conspired to force it off their shelf. Maybe it was an assisted suicide?

Dirt permeated the carpet, the crevices in the windows and the books nearby. You know I salvaged the books first. Luckily, I had killed another plant about a month ago and already had a replacement flower pot handy. So repotting this sorry little guy was easy.

In case you’re keeping track, I HAD five plants. One I evidently murdered through neglect and one decided to off himself. Now the violet that got such a hard start in life with me (see the link below) is nursing an injury. Meanwhile, the Christmas cactus, gifted to me by well meaning but misguided friends, is just trying not to call attention to itself.

I’m happy to report that Scout’s catnip plant is thriving but have no idea how this is possible given the abuse it takes from him every day.

Read about the African Violet’s sad introduction to life with me here.

Some days you’re better off just staying in bed. I fear the plants are wishing I would stay away and send them someone competent to tend their needs. Honestly, it’s hard to blame them.

That Look

This is the look I get when Scout catches me writing something with a pen. He hates the sound of a pen to paper.

This is actually the warning look just before he starts tugging on my clothes, arms, hands – anything he can get his paws on. See the murder mittens? He knows how to use them!

I don’t understand his aversion to pens . Yes, it makes a scratching noise but he never seemed to care when he was small. Maybe it developed when I began working remotely during Covid? Too much time together? I don’t know but he will rouse himself from a deep slumber in another room to stop the madness if I write for too long.

He’s a peculiar little guy and quite set in his ways. All I know is that life is never dull around here!

Every Day Except Today

This is a magnet bought while out adventuring yesterday. I don’t enjoy a lot of refrigerator clutter but this spoke to me and seemed like a good investment for just a few bucks.

Today it’s raining and gloomy in this corner of the world, and while I could seek adventure in the rain, it’s a great day for some chores and perhaps a movie later.

So, to recap: Every day IS a new adventure …. except today. Today I stay home and do regular stuff!

What are you up to this soggy Saturday?