A sinus issue that I have been fighting for over a week seems to have settled in to stay. It’s the dry kind that makes your sinus cavities hurt and that causes pain in the gums. The strain of it all causes fatigue.
Last night, after work, I did something out of character and went to bed. My to-do list can wait. Yesterday’s lunch dishes can wait too. Sometimes a gal just needs to rest.
When you don’t feel well, just rest and reset. Maybe today will be better.
Earlier this week I read something on Facebook that claimed a Dutch supermarket chain has installed what they call slow checkouts for elderly people who are lonely and need someone to talk to. It has been so popular they have added a chat corner where people can meet for a cup of coffee and conversation.
A quick search on the internet produced a handful of articles about Jumbo, a Dutch grocery chain with over 700 locations that introduced the slow lane in 2019. It was part of the government’s One Against Loneliness campaign.
They call it a Kletskassa or “chat checkout” and it has indeed been popular. The family business recognizes the importance of community involvement and a company representative said they want to be more than just a place to shop.
Remember when cashiers had to type in a price on a cash register? Remember when people wrote checks? The checkout process was a little slower, giving customers and cashiers a few minutes to chat. Increasing use of technology in our world, particularly in grocery stores, has sped up the checkout process when using a cashier and completely removed human contact from the experience in some places.
Now if you strike up a conversation with a cashier, the people in line behind you start rolling their eyes and looking for another line. I have noticed that cashiers are so accustomed to being ignored by customers on their phones or talking to each other that they don’t even look up to say hello anymore.
I am not old or lonely but I am an introvert, and a single person who spends a lot of time alone. If there’s one thing the pandemic taught me it is that I am good at being alone. In fact, there are days I wouldn’t speak a word if not for conversations with the cat.
And I’m perfectly fine with that.
But this isn’t a good life for most people and I know plenty of younger people who could benefit from a conversation with someone outside their regular circle.
The public library in Chillicothe sometimes has Human Library Days where you can “borrow a person” who is different than you. This concept also comes from Denmark and they are doing it again today.
Whether it be a human library, a coffee chat or a good old fashioned chat with a stranger, life in the slow lane might be good for us all. I wish American stores would take the hint and put more emphasis on the human aspect of doing business for those who wish to engage.
Until then, we can let the folks at Jumbo perfect the art of the slow checkout!
The last year has been a work in progress where my hypothyroidism is concerned and these last few months have been about food experimentation.
Read all the articles you like but it isn’t until you begin playing with your food that you comprehend how food can help or hurt your body.
Regular readers are familiar with my Whole 30 journey which ended after 43 days of whole foods and no sweeteners, dairy, soy or grains. Then I took a break for most of June when it seemed to be a parade of meals outside my control.
I used this time to stretch boundaries and learned that they don’t stretch very far. When I ate Whole 30 for those 43 days, I felt great and had tons of energy. Since stopping, my energy has gradually waned and some of the pain has come back.
So I started a new round on Saturday. Only, this time will be different. This time, I’m working to make the Whole 30 way of eating the norm rather than something that has a beginning and an end. This time, I’m allowing vanilla yogurt with a small amount of sweetener because I like yogurt and life with plain yogurt is just too basic.
There normally is no room for mistakes when you do Whole 30. Make a mistake today and you’ll start again tomorrow. This time, if I need to go off script for a meal, I will just keep going with the next meal.
You can lie to yourself about all manner of things but your body will never lie to you when it is feeling abused or neglected.
I really haven’t eaten that badly until the last few days of my break when I developed a “last supper” complex, eating fried food, popcorn and Oreos.
I didn’t feel good about it at all. Three days in and it feels like I’m detoxing a bit and am looking forward to feeling good again in a few days.
One other thing to note – I had fallen into the habit of blaming my thyroid and having negative thoughts toward this small gland that is basically command central for the human body. It’s a big responsibility. But it isn’t my thyroid’s fault that it is under siege. So I am flipping the narrative to speak with words of support rather than contempt. No more calling it “my stupid thyroid!”
Thyroid disease is life altering for most patients but I refuse to give in and just live with it for the sake of a cookie. So today, I will double down on nutrition, rest and water consumption.
It’s the first day of the rest of my life and I’m dedicated to making it count. I hope you do the same in whatever way is good for you.
Yesterday I told you about my food fears as I begin to navigate better eating habits to support my ailing thyroid. After a 43 day round of the Whole 30, this week I will begin to loosen some rules for when dining out is necessary.
Yesterday went fine. I ate a great whole foods breakfast and dinner. We had a busy day at work and the bank bought lunch so we wouldn’t have to break from our project for too long. I could have chosen a salad but decided to give myself something I used to love from this restaurant – a grilled cheese on gluten free bread, some sea salt kettle chips and fruit.
The fruit was delicious.
The rest of it was ok but I would have been happy with the salad. Plus, I was tired within the hour. So I came home to a delicious vegetarian dinner and felt good again.
Lesson learned. Honestly, I was a little relieved when my reaction was “meh.” At least I won’t be craving that stuff.
It’s another new day and so the experiment continues!
Today is a new day and I’m absolutely terrified of what it will bring.
You see, I ended my official Whole 30 round yesterday. After 43 days of eating whole foods and avoiding food groups that I know my thyroid can’t handle, I feel amazing.
I’m full of energy and nothing hurts.
The new rules are that I comply with the Whole 30 rules at home and as much as I can otherwise. So I’ll continue to pack my lunch when I go to the office and will pack snacks for road trips. However, I have permission to eat what I need when I’m in situations where I need to eat out.
Restaurants are hard when you’re trying to eat real food and avoid sweeteners, dairy, grains, corn and soy. I have eaten a ton of sad iceberg lettuce salads with a little shredded carrot a single cherry tomato. That’s what most restaurants around here offer as a garden salad and it’s pitiful.
In other words, I have more or less gone hungry on those days. Although, I do pack some snacks like an apple, nuts and an RX Bar which basically acts as a meal replacement.
Now, I can just try to choose wisely and the very thought is terrifying.
I cannot go back to feeling tired and sore and I fear undoing all my hard work with just a few bad choices.
For the next three days, at least one meal a day will be eaten out. That just means I need to be smart and double down on the nutritious stuff for the other meals. And if you see me with a Diet Coke in my hands, please smack it away and remind me that water is what my body needs to function best.
Stress is no excuse for poor choices!
Friends, some lessons must be learned and relearned many times before they actually stick. Or maybe they never really stick and you just have to keep reminding yourself. For me, one of those lessons is that food can be medicine or it can be poison.
Life so full of choices and it feels like the American diet steers us in the wrong direction. According to a study by Northeastern University’s Network Science, 73 percent of the US food supply is defined as ultra processed.
The healthier options don’t have exciting packaging or ultra sweet flavors but they sure do make you feel better! My ailing thyroid is grateful for the support.
So, if you don’t mind, send me some good vibes today. I may need the help!
When you’re diagnosed with a thyroid problem, there aren’t many reputable resources to explain exactly how to eat to support this ailing gland.
I have read a lot about what you can’t eat and that tends to be discouraging. Gluten and sugar are not your friend with hypothyroidism and there are lots of inflammatory foods to be avoided as well.
Unfortunately, the American diet is built around gluten and sugar.
I discovered something called the Whole 30 several years ago and decided to revisit this eating plan as it aligns well with thyroid needs. Essentially, it’s a 30 day eating plan that eliminates foods that are traditionally inflammatory and many that commonly cause digestive issues.
That means you can’t have any kind of grains, dairy or sweeteners so there’s no rice, quinoa, corn, yogurt or most processed foods. Fast food is almost completely off the table as is the Diet Coke that I so often turn to in times of exhaustion.
You’re meant to eat meals of vegetables, lean proteins and healthy fats. There’s no measuring or counting calories. No one cares how many carbs are in a banana. You just eat whole foods and you eat till you’re full. If you’re hungry on the Whole 30 you’re doing it wrong.
I actually finished day 30 earlier this week and intend to keep going for a while longer.
So, how did it go?
I feel amazing.
The first couple of weeks were rough but life suddenly became wonderful when I hit my stride.
For the first time in a couple of years I have zero pain in my body. My joints and muscles feel great. Getting out of bed is no longer a crisis. The fluid in my ears is gone. The weight gain has stalled and the brain fog is still there but not nearly so bad.
Since last Friday, I have accomplished a bunch of yard work, some stuff inside, run errands, hiked and have been busy at work. A year ago, I wouldn’t have been able to do even a fraction of this stuff.
It feels like a miracle.
I know that nutrition is important to the human body but my entire life feels transformed. After thirty days, you’re supposed to start reintroducing foods to see how your body responds but I don’t feel ready. So I’m going on for a couple more weeks before deciding what happens next.
There’s some soul searching to do.
Truth is, eating Whole 30 at home is easy if you know how to cook. Eating in public is hard. Try going to a family reunion, a work lunch or a fast food restaurant and find food that meets the rules. I have made a meal out of deviled eggs with the filling scraped out and plain veggies without dip. The only fast food option has been a Wendy’s baked potato and a plain salad. Even sit down restaurants are hard to navigate.
So I pack food as much as possible but trouble begins when that’s not an option. Luckily, going hungry for a day seems like a fair swap for a life without muscle pain.
So, the question on the table is what am I willing to live with? What can I live without? Is dessert worth the foot pain tomorrow morning?
I am inclined to say that I’ll continue with Whole 30 at home. In public, I can just do my best. At lunch with coworkers I can have the cauliflower crust pizza but not worry about the sugar in the pizza sauce. All those great mom and pop diners are still within reach if I know the fish and chips are a treat but that I’ll be back to baked fish and steamed veggies tomorrow.
Food can be medicine or it can be poison. Some foods will help support my thyroid and move me forward while others will send me backward. I need to think of foods in this way. How do I want to feel tomorrow?
That’s the question.